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		<title>By: Jingo</title>
		<link>http://www.about-face.org/interview-with-gala-darling-inspiring-radical-self-love/#comment-4387</link>
		<dc:creator>Jingo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 13:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with saphy and I have to say Sara from Cartoon Heart says it better than I do: http://cartoon-heart.com/2011/07/19/please-love-yourself-for-free/ Please read this if you think there&#039;s nothing wrong with what Gala is doing, it is really, reeeeally worth the read.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with saphy and I have to say Sara from Cartoon Heart says it better than I do: <a href="http://cartoon-heart.com/2011/07/19/please-love-yourself-for-free/" rel="nofollow">http://cartoon-heart.com/2011/07/19/please-love-yourself-for-free/</a> Please read this if you think there&#8217;s nothing wrong with what Gala is doing, it is really, reeeeally worth the read.</p>
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		<title>By: saphy</title>
		<link>http://www.about-face.org/interview-with-gala-darling-inspiring-radical-self-love/#comment-1641</link>
		<dc:creator>saphy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 11:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m quite conflicted about Gala too. I think it&#039;s great that her blog encourages working on yourself and being happy instead of indulging in mindless gossip BUT I find her hypocritical.

She says that people should be happy whatever body shape they have, yet she moans about her height (5&#039;7 is NOT short!) idolizes mary-kate olsen and tracey anderson and goes on about how wonderful the raw food diet is when it involves barely eating anything. She once posted a picture of a model (who looked like a famine victim) and said she was beautiful then deleted my comment when I said she looked emaciated and ill and maybe wasn&#039;t the most appropriate image to put on a supposedly body positive blog. Not to mention writing for Cosmopolitan which to me, is a magazine that encourages women to be sex objects.

 She also speaks of being content without material things (but constantly brags about the stuff she can buy) and being a &quot;conscious consumer&quot; but promotes estee lauder (which allegedly uses cancer causing chemicals in their products) and numerous cosmetics that are tested on animals and that most people can&#039;t actually afford.

she posted an article  called &quot;for god&#039;s sake don&#039;t sleep with him&quot; which basically said that women who don&#039;t have one night stands have low self esteem then posted (which I think is pretty ridiculous) then later posted XXX Time saying that sex is better when your in a reationship!

Sorry for the essay! Just a few things that I&#039;ve been thinking about and want to see if anyone else agrees. Like I said, there&#039;s a lot of good, useful advice on her blog but I can&#039;t have much admiration for someone who doesn&#039;t practice anything she preaches.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m quite conflicted about Gala too. I think it&#8217;s great that her blog encourages working on yourself and being happy instead of indulging in mindless gossip BUT I find her hypocritical.</p>
<p>She says that people should be happy whatever body shape they have, yet she moans about her height (5&#8217;7 is NOT short!) idolizes mary-kate olsen and tracey anderson and goes on about how wonderful the raw food diet is when it involves barely eating anything. She once posted a picture of a model (who looked like a famine victim) and said she was beautiful then deleted my comment when I said she looked emaciated and ill and maybe wasn&#8217;t the most appropriate image to put on a supposedly body positive blog. Not to mention writing for Cosmopolitan which to me, is a magazine that encourages women to be sex objects.</p>
<p> She also speaks of being content without material things (but constantly brags about the stuff she can buy) and being a &#8220;conscious consumer&#8221; but promotes estee lauder (which allegedly uses cancer causing chemicals in their products) and numerous cosmetics that are tested on animals and that most people can&#8217;t actually afford.</p>
<p>she posted an article  called &#8220;for god&#8217;s sake don&#8217;t sleep with him&#8221; which basically said that women who don&#8217;t have one night stands have low self esteem then posted (which I think is pretty ridiculous) then later posted XXX Time saying that sex is better when your in a reationship!</p>
<p>Sorry for the essay! Just a few things that I&#8217;ve been thinking about and want to see if anyone else agrees. Like I said, there&#8217;s a lot of good, useful advice on her blog but I can&#8217;t have much admiration for someone who doesn&#8217;t practice anything she preaches.</p>
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		<title>By: Sunday Hustle 3/7/11 &#124; Girls Are Made From Pepsi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sunday Hustle 3/7/11 &#124; Girls Are Made From Pepsi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jul 2011 18:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Marianne</title>
		<link>http://www.about-face.org/interview-with-gala-darling-inspiring-radical-self-love/#comment-1639</link>
		<dc:creator>Marianne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 17:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The thing about self-love and consumption is that they actually are more related than you think. IÂ´m not the biggest shopper ever, but IÂ´m an artist and I like to express myself. IÂ´m currently living away from home with just the most basic items - no makeup, no frilly dresses, no bright colors - and I have to say it affects the way I feel about myself, especially when meeting new people. So to some extent the things you buy do make you feel good about yourself, whether it is dressing for your body or dressing in pinks and purples because it suits your mood. Obviously there is no subsitute for actually accepting yourself the way you are without the clothes/makeup shebang but youÂ´d be surprised how differently you carry yourself if someone stripped away the items of consumption that make you you! Hope this made sense for anyone who is interested.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The thing about self-love and consumption is that they actually are more related than you think. IÂ´m not the biggest shopper ever, but IÂ´m an artist and I like to express myself. IÂ´m currently living away from home with just the most basic items &#8211; no makeup, no frilly dresses, no bright colors &#8211; and I have to say it affects the way I feel about myself, especially when meeting new people. So to some extent the things you buy do make you feel good about yourself, whether it is dressing for your body or dressing in pinks and purples because it suits your mood. Obviously there is no subsitute for actually accepting yourself the way you are without the clothes/makeup shebang but youÂ´d be surprised how differently you carry yourself if someone stripped away the items of consumption that make you you! Hope this made sense for anyone who is interested.</p>
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		<title>By: sarasuperid</title>
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		<dc:creator>sarasuperid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jul 2011 18:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think people also don&#039;t realize that a lot of the stuff that Gala gets is mailed to her for free.  Its not like she goes out and buys stuff everyday. 

Any well read writer in the fashion business receives tons of samples.  Even some of the smallest blogs I read get free samples of hair irons and such on a regular basis.

Anyways, I got a pair of glitter/sequin shoes at target for $12 and they make me happy every time I look down at them.    Her advice isn&#039;t half bad.  If I spend within my means to pamper myself now and then out of love for myself without going into debt or harming others, why not?!  

I think the number one thing I take away from Gala on a weekly basis is: no guilt about normal healthy behaviors!  No guilt about self love, no guilt about pride in your achievements, no guilt about pursuing your dreams.

She also models healthy eating without restrictions.  She still eats cake and pizza but most of the time she eats very healthy, raw foods and such.  She models exercising in fun ways.  She models so much beauty, even though she is kind homely actually, she just shines beauty and after reading her for years upon years I think she is gorgeous.

I read a lot of fashion blogs, by a lot of different women from all walks of life (in developed countries, I mean they are fashion blogs, so I gotta be real here).  And I think fashion blogging is a way of subverting fashion magazine messages.  Lovely women of all sorts dressing in wardrobes of all sizes (there is even one lady who wore the same dress for a year!) .  Gala is one of the earliest, and hers was the first fashion blog I followed.  That lead me to reading a few dozen and getting so many perspectives.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think people also don&#8217;t realize that a lot of the stuff that Gala gets is mailed to her for free.  Its not like she goes out and buys stuff everyday. </p>
<p>Any well read writer in the fashion business receives tons of samples.  Even some of the smallest blogs I read get free samples of hair irons and such on a regular basis.</p>
<p>Anyways, I got a pair of glitter/sequin shoes at target for $12 and they make me happy every time I look down at them.    Her advice isn&#8217;t half bad.  If I spend within my means to pamper myself now and then out of love for myself without going into debt or harming others, why not?!  </p>
<p>I think the number one thing I take away from Gala on a weekly basis is: no guilt about normal healthy behaviors!  No guilt about self love, no guilt about pride in your achievements, no guilt about pursuing your dreams.</p>
<p>She also models healthy eating without restrictions.  She still eats cake and pizza but most of the time she eats very healthy, raw foods and such.  She models exercising in fun ways.  She models so much beauty, even though she is kind homely actually, she just shines beauty and after reading her for years upon years I think she is gorgeous.</p>
<p>I read a lot of fashion blogs, by a lot of different women from all walks of life (in developed countries, I mean they are fashion blogs, so I gotta be real here).  And I think fashion blogging is a way of subverting fashion magazine messages.  Lovely women of all sorts dressing in wardrobes of all sizes (there is even one lady who wore the same dress for a year!) .  Gala is one of the earliest, and hers was the first fashion blog I followed.  That lead me to reading a few dozen and getting so many perspectives.</p>
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		<title>By: Tessa</title>
		<link>http://www.about-face.org/interview-with-gala-darling-inspiring-radical-self-love/#comment-1637</link>
		<dc:creator>Tessa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 16:45:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks everyone for your comments. I too was troubled by the fine line between consumerism and self-love, which is why I asked Gala the question. But I thought she had some great answers and, as I said in the article, I can accept it now. 

Alex is right, not everyone&#039;s values are the same, and the more we can appreciate each other for the great things we do, rather than criticise for the things that might be different to how we would be, the better!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks everyone for your comments. I too was troubled by the fine line between consumerism and self-love, which is why I asked Gala the question. But I thought she had some great answers and, as I said in the article, I can accept it now. </p>
<p>Alex is right, not everyone&#8217;s values are the same, and the more we can appreciate each other for the great things we do, rather than criticise for the things that might be different to how we would be, the better!</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
		<link>http://www.about-face.org/interview-with-gala-darling-inspiring-radical-self-love/#comment-1636</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jul 2011 07:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sara, you took the words out of my mouth. I think Gala has really great intentions on spreading radical self-love, but I do think that in the past few years, her success has enabled consumerist habits that don&#039;t appeal to those of us with simpler lifestyles. Shouldn&#039;t self-love come from inside, not from commercial frivolity? She touched on this in the last answer of the interview, but I think there is a fine line between allowing yourself frivolous purchases and indulging to the point of ignorance about the world and how you are supporting unnecessary consumerism and wastefulness.

Of course not everyone&#039;s values are the same, so I shouldn&#039;t project, but it would be nice to see her have a little more concern for living modestly for a greater purpose.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sara, you took the words out of my mouth. I think Gala has really great intentions on spreading radical self-love, but I do think that in the past few years, her success has enabled consumerist habits that don&#8217;t appeal to those of us with simpler lifestyles. Shouldn&#8217;t self-love come from inside, not from commercial frivolity? She touched on this in the last answer of the interview, but I think there is a fine line between allowing yourself frivolous purchases and indulging to the point of ignorance about the world and how you are supporting unnecessary consumerism and wastefulness.</p>
<p>Of course not everyone&#8217;s values are the same, so I shouldn&#8217;t project, but it would be nice to see her have a little more concern for living modestly for a greater purpose.</p>
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		<title>By: sara</title>
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		<dc:creator>sara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 15:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was a great interview!! I&#039;m so torn on that girl.  Sometimes I really like her writing, but her constant, constant shopping  and bragging is really a turn-off and I think it shows she has some deep psychological issues.  I like her articles best where she is just sharing cool links, info and experiences.  Any time she gives advice I think--&quot;I don&#039;t want to mirror anything this person does!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was a great interview!! I&#8217;m so torn on that girl.  Sometimes I really like her writing, but her constant, constant shopping  and bragging is really a turn-off and I think it shows she has some deep psychological issues.  I like her articles best where she is just sharing cool links, info and experiences.  Any time she gives advice I think&#8211;&#8221;I don&#8217;t want to mirror anything this person does!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Dallas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dallas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 22:52:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great interview, Tess.  I love Gala&#039;s outlook.  It&#039;s got me thinking!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great interview, Tess.  I love Gala&#8217;s outlook.  It&#8217;s got me thinking!</p>
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