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Alice in Wonderland

What’s age (and weight) got to do with the Oscars?

Melissa Leo implored Academy voters to consider her as a nominee. But she may not have needed to ask.

Melissa Leo implored Academy voters to consider her as a nominee. But she may not have needed to ask.

Admit it, you would have dropped the f-bomb too.

After winning the Best Supporting Actress Oscar at Sunday’s Academy Awards, Melissa Leo blurted out the expletive, along with a slew of more G-rated words of gratitude.

Yet no one can seem to let Leo off the hook for last month’s self-promotional “Consider” ads she personally paid for in Hollywood trade mags.

At the time, 50-year-old Leo blamed ageism for the need to toot her own horn.

“I did hear a lot of very positive comments, particularly from women of a certain age who happen to act for a living and happen to understand full well the great dilemma and mystery of getting a cover of a magazine,” she said.

So did Leo really need to hype herself up with a faux-fur-filled photo shoot? Jezebel’s Irin Carmon doesn’t think so. “Leo was already a frontrunner for her performance in The Fighter,” she wrote. ”And the ads just made people mock her.”

Regardless, Leo went home a winner, and seemed to prove to movie-goers (and maybe to herself), that age ain’t nothing but a number when it comes to talent.

Weight, on the other hand, still seems to be an equal-opportunity issue. Continue reading

Stuff My Dad Says (Female Empowerment/Pre-Oscars Edition)

The other day, my dad (age 71) was telling me (age 35) about his 8 favorite movies of the year, since the Golden Globes and Oscars were coming up, and it occurred to me that most of them (except for #8, Inception) have multidimensional female characters who are mostly strong and empowered. And what’s cool is that the movies’ purposes are not to show strong, empowered women per se, but to tell complex stories about people in general.

Jennifer Lawrence as Ree Dolly in WINTER'S BONE, directed by Debra Granik. Photo Credit: Sebastian M...

Jennifer Lawrence in "Winter's Bone"

My dad’s kind of a conservative, and I’m always pretty impressed by his support of good roles for women given the era in which he came of age. So I asked him to be a guest blogger. He’s not a writer, but he sent me a few words anyway. Given that he gave me this list before the Oscar nominations came out, I think he may have called a few of ‘em. Here he is.

Black Swan is many kinds of movies in one. Natalie Portman nails the role of a lifetime and not just because she studied ballet and dieted herself down.

Winter’s Bone: The main character, Ree (Jennifer Lawrence), takes us on a journey through her meager existence with many barriers in her way. Undaunted courage that we can all try to emulate in our own lives.

In The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Lisbeth Salander, played by Noomi Rapace, is now in movie history as a special character with grit and more grit. There has to be a special mention just for being the new female anti-hero.

Morning Glory: Ah, almost all the critics hated it, but I liked it a lot. Harrison Ford played it straight and tough. Great cast but the Rachel McAdams love story part was a dud. People were laughing in the theatre. Very witty without being cutsey.

Dakota Fanning and Kristen Stewart in "The Runaways."

The Runaways was made on a shoestring budget, which is what the band member’s lives were like. The Runwaways were Joan Jett’s group, but the film isn’t only about her. And it’s applicable to today, showing the travails of girl rockers who are too young for what they are going through. The epilogue tells us that Jett’s anthem, “I Love Rock and Roll”, was rejected by 50-100 people before she produced it herself. What a shame.

Secretariat isn’t really about the horse but about the owner, Penny Chenery Tweedy (Diane Lane). In 1970, Tweedy leaves Denver, where she is a housewife, to go to Virginia to take care of the arrangements of her mother’s funeral. Her father, who she is very close to, has Alzeheimer’s. He then dies and she chooses a foal, Secretariat. She takes control of the farm and the horse’s management. There’s much in this film about the chauvinism of the age. I had many a tear.

To my dad’s list, I would add True Grit (Hailee Steinfeld, yes! All girls over age 14 should see this movie), Alice In Wonderland (so many reasons), and The Fighter (Amy Adams stands up for herself, but was also a really loving character).

Have you seen any of these movies? What did you think?


–Jennifer

Gallery of Winners: Slaying a Jabberwocky and Other Girly Feats.

Questions to Consider:

* What are some of Alice’s personality traits in this movie?

* Did Alice need to be brave to be truly herself? Why?

* Did it seem important that Alice was pretty or wore makeup in this movie?

What We Think:

Disney isn’t exactly known for its portrayals of girls that go against the princess grain. But this time, I was pleasantly surprised by the character of Alice in the recent Alice in Wonderland. She is actually multi-dimensional (not just there to look pretty)! She’s courageous! She says she’s scared, but she confronts that fear to kill the Jabberwocky, then goes “home” to Victorian England to run a business with her late father’s business partner instead of marrying his yucky son. Her job in the film isn’t to be a pawn or to let things happen to her, but to take control over her circumstances. And it’s all done rather subtly. With more characters like this, I would like us to start thinking, collectively, as a culture, “It just happens that the hero of this film is a woman.”

Also see “6 reasons girls should aspire to be like Alice (in Wonderland)” on our blog.

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6 reasons girls should aspire to be like Alice (in Wonderland)

Let's see the fierce Alice for a change.

So let’s talk about the new film directed by Tim Burton, Alice in Wonderland. I saw it last weekend, and the Alice character surprised me in her multi-dimensionality and courageousness. It’s rare to see female characters portrayed so evenly. Herein I make my case.

You can read a synopsis of the film elsewhere, but here are my top 6 reasons why Alice (played by Mia Wasikowska) is a very good role model for girls and women.

Reason #1: Girlfriend is scared to death, but overcomes her fear and kills the Jabberwocky anyway. It may be written that she’s fated to kill the Jabberwocky on the Frabjous day (calooh callay!), but she can’t believe it (“I don’t slay,” she says). After the delightful, caring White Queen (Anne Hathaway is hilarious as a floaty girly-girl) asks her to be her “champion”, Alice puts on her armor and picks up the sword. Though she’s shaking in her boots, she reminds herself of what her father used to say: “I believe six impossible things before breakfast.” She names off six impossible things (“There is a place called Wonderland…”) as she goes to face the Jabberwocky. And you’d better believe she is victorious.

How refreshing is it that she feels the fear and does it anyway? We really don’t hear much about great women feeling scared to go for what they want, but most gutsy women know that it’s part of their apparent courage. We may appear fearless, but we work very hard to overcome the fear first, and we sure do give ourselves little pep talks in the process. Little and big girls would do well to take note. Continue reading

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